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Hu "Let's Talk About Death" Tao ([personal profile] localweirdo) wrote2023-09-12 06:23 pm

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[personal profile] fussiest 2023-11-09 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
Truly, you've a kind heart, Miss Hu Tao.
And yes, I was thinking much the same. Just because death doesn't end a life, doesn't mean you don't experience it - and nothing can erase that experience.
I suppose there's nothing much one can do about such a thing. It is the way of the world.
But that also makes me wonder - would funeral rites help? Is there a place for them?
Are funeral rites just for the people left behind, or is it also for those who have experienced something that should have been the end?
Would it be a meaningless gesture, or would it have meaning still?
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[personal profile] fussiest 2023-11-10 04:34 am (UTC)(link)
A spiritual death...
Yes, that's the way to think about it. I hadn't considered that, but it sounds right.
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[personal profile] fussiest 2023-11-17 11:06 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, I hadn't thought of that. Almost like a ritual to move the spirit and soul.
If nothing else, it means something to the people doing it - and it will mean something to the people left behind.
Did you know? Having to wait on that train platform for the one who died to return - I never want that to happen again. The wait is lonely, I think.
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[personal profile] fussiest 2023-11-18 05:39 am (UTC)(link)
No, no, not to me.
I've had to wait for a friend, though. She died much earlier on, back when I first arrived. I was just recalling her death and how it's changed my thinking in this world.
You really are kind, though. Thank you for caring, Miss Hu Tao.
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[personal profile] fussiest 2023-11-18 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
She is. She seems well, now, with smiles in abundance.
Though I don't know how much peace she is able to attain. There's so little I know about what death is like; perhaps she's used to it, but that's not something I can easily accept.
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[personal profile] fussiest 2023-11-23 10:21 am (UTC)(link)
I suppose so.
Thank you, I think I've straightened out my thoughts a little.
Perhaps I'm no closer to a true answer, but it's given me quite a bit to think about.
Ah, I hope I'm not strange for contacting you about this out of the blue.
And thank you for your time, Miss Hu Tao.
My heart is a little lighter.